Am I to blame for the flaws of my children?

What!! Even though we are not the Creator of our children we insist on taking the backlash for this. No – Neither is the Creator the source of all flaws. Then where does it all begin and why are we so happily clueless about this – but so willing to enter into silent abuse of the mind on this subject? Hopefully the new generations are not here to meekly submit to the same base understanding of human life and are willing to take this topic everywhere.

To clarify this matter every soul must self-reflect on this one idea – ‘’Know thyself to know thy Creator’’. Interesting to note in all of this is that He created creation, placed it in a test tube called earth, set it down gently in an explosion which He termed ‘’the Universe’’ – whilst He Himself sits outside it all watching the mind of man self-illuminate with all the truth it is. He then created ‘man’ gave him from His very own breath and set a timer saying ‘’expiry date’’ on it – and that’s how we all begin to die slowly from the moment we were born. Amazing isn’t it!

You want to know what else is amazing!! The Creator then fashioned an exclusive pathway reserving it for those who will rush the process of death, all the while growing in His light – With this plan all laid out, He went ahead and whispered through all sacred texts, for those who were willing to listen… ‘The path of the righteous will end in a moment and begin again in the same instant in a world called Eternity’. He then set about programming this whole edition into the universal matter calling it the higher destiny of man. And wait for it…..the cherry on top of it all – He commanded the universal energies to grant this knowledge and the power to take it out to man, but only when he asked for it.

And this is the anti-climax – With all these magnificence floating in and around us, all we can do is focus on a whole host of disasters and problems that civilisation has pre-set as past patterns of bad thinking that flows constantly into the consciousness of man – And that is what man focusses on! Really?? As science and the Quran has proven that we are not the creators of life or our destiny – and that everyone is fighting their own battle due to genetic flow that presents us with flaws of the past – We will discover that ours was to just correct it and move on. Those that did achieve great heights, those that took it for mere conjecture failed outright and took their flaws with them to their graves. We are no more responsible for having brought these flaws into the world – but we do have a role to play in how to work with our flaws and that of others.

It is time to take a good look at those around you and accept that the drug addiction is not your fault – the adultery, drinking, and gambling is not yours to drown in. The laziness or lack of enthusiasm for life by the new generation is not your doing or undoing –it is an illness of the consciousness that needs assistance to reset itself. Ours is to contemplate and ponder over how we can make a difference to those with these illnesses of the mind. If we stop treating the problems life offers us as a personal attack on our happiness, then we will realise that solutions were created to pour through the enriched, educated, inspired minds. The universal energy of the higher destiny of mankind is offering us to come forward and take the chill pill as it offers us a chance to communicate and find our way out of the mess of the past.

It may be too late to correct the past mistakes, but it’s not too late to encourage the future with a new plan. We got this…we have learned thus far that only the seekers will find. The rest will sleep away the time till death them finds. The red pill or the blue…the choice is yours to see how deep the rabbit hole of life really goes. Either way one holds destinies call and the other the call to seek your higher destiny. And no… you are not responsible for the flaws of your kids. They are ill and need a helping hand – so know that the hand of Allah is never far away.

THE SEALED NECTAR by Safiur Rahman

Another brilliant rendition of the works that documented the journey of the Holy Prophet ﷺ – All works that record history must be taken into consideration especially when the topic is a dear one as is the biography of the beloved Prophet. This is a rendition brought to you from a writer in India who won first prize in Saudi Arabia for his works. Well written and clear to the seeking heart the reader will find confirmation of the events that followed in the Prophet’s wake. All battles are enlisted and all strategies well written out giving the reader a clear indication of the strategies used to get the Muslims safely from a weak position to a strong leading role. Every student following civilization and its evolution should read the biography of the Holy Prophet ﷺ because he is ranked number one among all of mankind. This means that what you read about him is showcasing why he made it to the top 100 men that ruled an era in the life of man on earth.

MUHAMMAD by Martin Lings

This book is a biography of the Holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ – It is an internationally acclaimed comprehensive and authoritative account of the life of the Prophet ﷺ. This revised version which represents the final updates made to the text before the Author’s death. If you are seeking to read up on the complete account of the life of the Prophet of Allah – wars, successes, pitfalls etc – then this is the text you are looking for. A complete historical value given to the life of the Holy Prophet ﷺ. You will have a complete description of the area he lived in – migrated to – and conquered. His family, friends, companions, rulers that opposed him and rulers that supported his work. It is a must read – walking past it should not be considered an option. The author of this astounding and intense piece of work comes from the United Kingdom – This gives this book a fresh outlook from the hands grown under the western intellect system. 

  • All the battles and dates were given in great detail.
  • It showcases all the Sahabas, Khalifs and all the companions who worked closely with Muhammad (saw).
  • It documented step by step the rise of Islam and the manner in which it spread to a point of stability just before his demise.
  • It gives us hope and strength to fight our battles as an individual.